I have a written a number of articles about meditation and the importance of living and enjoying each moment of our lives. It is amazing how the days, weeks and years go by and we don't even recognise the way our lives are rushing past us - we sleep, wake up, a quick shower, grab a coffee, get the kids off to school, hurry to work - you know the scene - we all do this without giving any real thought to each moment or what we are doing - do we?
We are given this precious human life and we live on an incredible home called "planet earth" - but do we truly value this life and the world we live in - we take so much for granted day in and day out - giving hardly any thought to our environment or what we are doing minute by minute - everything is about achieving goals, getting through the day, making money, surviving - you may say that life is so tough for some of us that "how can we waste time meditating or worrying about the earth"? Some of you will think "I'm much too busy with my career and keeping my job and paying the bills to meditate or stop to think about each moment" - you know the score - life rushes past us until one day we wake up and think "where did the time go to" - "How did I get to be this old"?
It is so important to value each moment of our lives - to treasure each day as a great gift
I was reading an article about how to work better and to bring mindfulness into our daily lives - please read the following wise words:
The following piece is part of the Huffington Post’s month long
“Work
Well” initiative, which focuses on thriving in the workplace.
Given how much time we spend at work, it is a crying shame if we
don’t get the most out of it.
But how can we feel joyful and generous if we feel stressed out
by the constant nagging sense that we have too little time and too much to do?
The practice of mindfulness offers one answer.
The Zen Buddhist master Thich
Nhat Hanh, who is credited with being the father of mindfulness
in the West, has developed a checklist of actions we can take to ensure not
only that we stay in balance but also are able to see our work in the context
of creating a better world.
Thay, as he is known to his hundreds of thousands of followers
around the world, believes the practice of mindfulness is relevant to everyone,
regardless of what job they do.
He writes in his book Work that “learning the art of stopping,
of releasing tension, of using loving speech and deep listening, and sharing
this practice with others can have a huge impact on our own enjoyment at work
and on our company’s culture."
"When we know how to take care of our strong emotions and
to establish good relationships at work, communication improves, stress is
reduced, and our work becomes much more pleasant," he continues.
"This is a huge benefit not only to ourselves, but also to those we work
with, to our loved ones, our families, and the whole of society.”
Mindfulness is the art of bringing our full attention to the
present moment, starting with awareness of our breath. This allows us to
experience life without being caught up in the past or worrying about what might
happen in the future.
“The future is made up of only one substance and that is the
present moment,” Thay writes. “By taking care of the present, you are doing
everything you can to assure a good future.”
The 89-year-old Vietnamese monk, who was nominated for the Nobel
Peace Prize by Martin Luther King for his work in seeking an end to the Vietnam
war, is critical of Western society's obsession with competition at work, which
serves only to strengthen our sense of self at the expense of other people and
the environment.
In fact, he believes the
desperation to succeed at all costs helps fuel our voracious economic system,
which in turn is leading to climate change and the destruction of ecosystems
and biodiversity.
“Those striving to be the best, to be at the top, have to work
very hard to get there, and doing this, they suffer a lot,” he writes. “Once
they reach the top, they have to keep on striving in order to stay there, and
often they suffer from tremendous stress and become burnt out. If we continue
living like this we’re heading not only towards self-destruction but also
toward the destruction of our planet.”
Thay says we should replace our fixation with fame, wealth and
competition with the three Buddhist powers: understanding, love and letting go.
“Only when we can establish harmony, love and happiness within
ourselves are we in a position to really help our business,” he writes.
So here are 15 practical steps Thay says we can take to bring
mindfulness to our work:
1 Start your day with 10
minutes of sitting in meditation.
2 Take the time to sit
down and enjoy eating breakfast at home.
3 Remind yourself every
day of your gratitude for being alive and having 24 brand new hours to live
4 Try
not to divide your time into "my time" and "work." All time
can be your own time if you stay in the present moment and keep in touch with
what’s happening in your body and mind. There’s no reason why your time at work
should be any less pleasant than your time anywhere else.
5 Resist the urge to make calls on your cell
phone while on your way to and from work, or on your way to appointments. Allow
yourself this time to just be with yourself, with nature and with the world
around you.
6 Arrange a breathing area at work where you can
go to calm down, stop and have a rest. Take regular breathing breaks to come
back to your body and to bring your thoughts back to the present.
7 At lunchtime, eat only your food and not
your fears or worries. Don’t eat lunch at your desk. Change environments. Go
for a walk.
8 Make a ritual out of drinking your tea. Stop
work and look deeply into your tea to see everything that went into making it:
the clouds and the rain, the tea plantations and the workers harvesting the
tea.
9 Before going to a meeting, visualize someone
very peaceful, mindful and skillful being with you. Take refuge in this person
to help stay calm and peaceful.
10 If you feel anger or
irritation, refrain from saying or doing anything straight away. Come back to
your breathing and follow your in- and out-breath until you’ve calmed down.
11 Practice looking at your
boss, your superiors, your colleagues or your subordinates as your allies and
not as your enemies. Recognize that working collaboratively brings more
satisfaction and joy than working alone. Know that the success and happiness of
everyone is your own success.
12 Express your gratitude and
appreciation to your colleagues regularly for their positive qualities. This
will transform the whole work environment, making it much more harmonious and
pleasant for everyone.
13 Try to relax and restore
yourself before going home so you don’t bring accumulated negative energy or
frustration home with you.
14
Take some time to relax
and come back to yourself when you get home before starting on household
chores. Recognize that multitasking means you’re never fully present for any
one thing. Do one thing at a time and give it your full attention.
15. At the end of the day, keep a journal of all the good things that happened in your day.
Water your seeds of joy and gratitude regularly so they can grow.
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